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		<title>Five Ways to be Happy When You’re Single</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being single is often seen to be pitiful, lonely and depressing. &#124; by Femguide &#124; Whether you have been single for a long time or whether you have just come out of a long term relationship, there is no denying that some days are harder than others. However, being single doesn’t have to be a [...]]]></description>
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<div class="date"><em>| by Femguide |</em> </div>
<p><span class="dropCap">W</span>hether you have been single for a long time or whether you have just come out of a long term relationship, there is no denying that some days<span id="more-30165"></span> are harder than others. However, being single doesn’t have to be a bad thing. By following five simple steps you can start to accept your single status and embrace it.</p>
<p><strong>1: Appreciate Who You Are</strong></p>
<p>One of the main reasons why people feel unhappy when they are single is because they are unhappy with themselves. When you are in a relationship, your energy becomes consumed in making the other person happy. You think about your plans together and you get used to a daily routine. The problem comes when you don’t have that and you need to start thinking about just yourself. Those who are happy with themselves tend to be much happier when they are single than those who don’t.</p>
<p>It can be difficult to learn to like yourself and to appreciate who you are. However this is potentially one of the most important things that you need to do before you enter into a relationship.</p>
<p><strong>2: Accept Your Single Status</strong></p>
<p>It can be easy to try to fight against your single status. Acceptance often sets us free and it will enable you to move past the stigma of being alone. If you constantly find yourself asking why you are single then this applies to you. It is all too easy to focus upon why you are single rather than just accepting the fact that you are.</p>
<p><strong>3: Do What You Want to Do</strong></p>
<p>A major advantage of being single is that you do not have any responsibilities to anybody else. You can do exactly what you want to do, when you want to do it. In a relationship you have to consider the other person’s feelings. You also have to think about what they want as well as what you do. Many people are afraid of this initial freedom when they have just come out of a relationship. However, once you start to do things for yourself you soon start to realise how nice it actually is.</p>
<p><strong>4: Keep Yourself Busy</strong></p>
<p>When you are single one of the best ways to enjoy yourself is to keep yourself busy. Take up new hobbies and find something that you enjoy. Perhaps you could go back to college to better yourself? Or maybe you have always wanted to try something but you have always put it off? Now is the time to focus upon you and to take part in enjoyable activities. Keep busy and you will forget that you are alone. You could even go travelling and learn more about the world. Whatever takes your mind off being single, take full advantage of it.</p>
<p><strong>5: Make New Friends and Cherish Existing Ones</strong></p>
<p>To stop yourself from feeling lonely it would be a good idea to make new friends and spend time with existing ones. When you surround yourself with people who care about you it really does help to keep you happy. Arrange fun nights out with existing friends and take part in different hobbies to find new ones. You can find friends practically everywhere these days including the Internet.</p>
<p>These are just five ways in which you can be happy whilst you are single. Don’t forget – being single is not a downfall. It gives you the opportunity to figure out who you are and to better yourself whilst cherishing your friends and family.</p>
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		<title>7 Tips on How to Be a Lady</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 09:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How to be a Lady? &#124; by Jennifer &#124; This question has plagued our grandmothers and great-grandmothers, but many of us don’t give this a second thought… until we have a special event to attend, or until we discover that holly golightly in “breakfast at tiffany’s” is exactly who we want to be when we [...]]]></description>
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<div class="date"><em>| by Jennifer |</em> </div>
<p><span class="dropCap">T</span>his question has plagued our grandmothers and great-grandmothers, but many of us don’t give this a second thought… until we have a special event to attend, or until we discover that holly golightly in “breakfast at tiffany’s” is exactly who we want to be when we grow up.<span id="more-30043"></span> Well, my darling, if you’re wondering how to be a lady, I can help! I’ve been spending a lot of time being a lady for more than a decade, and I have loads of Tips to share… here are 7 tips on how to be a lady.</p>
<p><strong>1. Don’t Sleep around</strong><br />
Don’t get me wrong. Sex is fun, and there’s nothing wrong with experimenting and seeing if the shoe fits before you buy it. But love, don’t sleep around. It’s not lady-like, and it’s not safe besides.</p>
<p><strong>2. Don’t Smoke</strong><br />
Smoking used to be considered very lady-like and glamorous, but now it’s known to be unhealthy, dangerous, and smelly. If you don’t smoke, don’t start, and if you do smoke, quit. There’s something ladylike about persistence, too!</p>
<p><strong>3. Don’t over-drink</strong><br />
Are you getting a trend here? Over-doing anything isn’t lady-like, and that includes over-drinking, which may make you less inhibited, and more likely to smoke or sleep around. It also makes you look sloppy, which I’ll talk more about below. </p>
<p><strong>4. Don’t Be a Slob</strong><br />
Ladies aren’t slobs. It’s that simple. Dress neatly and keep your car and your house tidy. I’m not saying you and your house and car have to be spotless, but tidy, not sloppy.</p>
<p><strong>5. Don’t Curse (too Much)</strong><br />
I am a true fan of the f-bomb, but I know it’s not Lady-like to curse too much, so I try to save it for when I know it’s perfectly appropriate. Most other times, I use other words, either mild curses or simply other words that aren’t naughty.</p>
<p><strong>6. Dress The Part</strong><br />
Ladies don’t wear pajama pants in public. Ladies don’t wear stained or dirty or ill-fitting clothes in public. Often, ladies wear skirts and dresses, modest clothes that suit their own styles and their figures. Jeans and Dress pants are okay, of course, as long as they’re not too snug. Again, think holly golightly. What would Holly wear?  </p>
<p><strong>7. Be Polite</strong><br />
Ladies are also very polite. Yes, we have tempers, and it’s appropriate to be angry, but it’s never acceptable to be rude, to anyone, ever. Be polite to everyone, even when they don’t deserve it. This is one way how to be a Lady people tend to forget, but it’s so important!</p>
<p>Now that you’ve read my list of how to be a lady, do you feel more lady-like already? Which of these ways to be a lady do you like best? Or is there another tip you’d like to share? Please do!</p>
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		<title>The Future of Education</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 10:31:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you think of education, one thinks of a classroom with a teacher, a chalkboard, and a bunch of students. &#124; by Sana Akibu &#124; 2012 &#124; However, the future of education is developing rapidly with the help of new technology. So much so, that we can now have successful online classes and virtual online [...]]]></description>
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<div class="date"><em>| by Sana Akibu </em> | 2012 |</div>
<p><span class="dropCap">H</span>owever, the future of education is developing rapidly with the help of new technology. So much so, that we can now have successful online classes and virtual online degree programs.<span id="more-29635"></span> I came across a particular new education technology that will change the way we see the classroom. The name of this new educational system is called &#8220;First Glanz&#8221; <a href="http://Firstglanz.com">Firstglanz.com</a>. First Glanz is the ultimate educational social network that allows virtual classrooms and virtual talk shows to showcause to an online audience. Mr. Todd C. Mitchell M.Ed, [Founder of Empower Plus Virtual Communications LLC] and creator of this new technology, sat down with me to discuss this program and what it will do for the future of students around the world. </p>
<div id="attachment_29636" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Firstglanz.jpg" alt="" title="Firstglanz" width="450" height="303" class="size-full wp-image-29636" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Firstglanz Event</p></div>
<p>It all started when he was out of work due to a surgical procedure for a month. One Sunday afternoon a group of 12 students came by his house to make sure he was recovering from the surgery. That visit prompted the birth of this amazing idea. No student should have to skip school or miss out of an educational opportunity because they are away from class due to medical leave or reasons beyond their control. So one day while fishing on the Chesapeake bay with his daughters Kennedy(13) and Tai Mitchell (8) the name Firstglanz was born. Currently the program is live in Washington DC, Maryland, Virginia, and Philadelphia. The FirstGlanz program airs online every Sunday and Wednesday at 8:00pm est. So, what sets this online system apart from other virtual classrooms? It is the specific design template, the structure of topics, the 25 students to 1 teacher ratio, and bringing expert instructors that will educate those that watch the lessons being taught. You can also have private tutor sessions if you are an educator and teach as many as 25 students a day. </p>
<div id="attachment_29644" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/fr21.jpg" alt="" title="fr2" width="450" height="365" class="size-full wp-image-29644" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Firstglanz Event</p></div>
<p>The program will begin its launch at the prestigious Howard University campus, and the registration process is very easy and open to all age ranges. All you need is to have access to the 11.0 or higher Adobe system and a web cam. Education has no bounds, and neither does this online virtual system. Mr. Todd C. Mitchell M.Ed, saw a need in our educational structure and developed First Glanz for every boy and girl around the globe. Not only does he focus on education, but he is a philanthropist in his community. He runs many charities under the Empower Plus Community Outreach Programs. The first one is the non-for-profit charity called One Million Male Mentors (OMMM), which is a community outreach program that calls on all nationalities to hold all-male symposiums that uplift youth and shine positive light into their lives. </p>
<div id="attachment_29638" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/fr3.jpg" alt="" title="fr3" width="450" height="315" class="size-full wp-image-29638" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Firstglanz Event</p></div>
<p>This charity also helps those in detention centers transition back into society and get back into the work force. The belief strongly held that individuals can make mistakes, as long as you don&#8217;t allow it to negatively impact your life. Another charity under the program focuses on male prostate cancer and educating men on early detection. This disease is very personal to Mr. Mitchell, because his grandfather passed away from prostate cancer, and his father is a 15 year prostate cancer survivor. It also launched the women&#8217;s breast cancer program that focuses on enlightening women about the symptoms and ways to battle the life threatening disease that has taken the life of his Aunt and two  other relatives are currently fighting the disease. The last charity is the Empower Plus Educational Scholarship that gives deserving students money for college expenses. You can become involved with any of these programs by visiting<br />
www.empowerplusvc.com. </p>
<div id="attachment_29639" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/fr4.jpg" alt="" title="fr4" width="450" height="363" class="size-full wp-image-29639" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Mr. Todd C. Mitchell M.Ed, First Glanz </p></div>
<p>I was very honored to have sat down with Mr. Todd C. Mitchell M.Ed and speak with him candidly about all of his wonderful endeavors and charity work. Not only is he a teacher and educator, but he strongly believes education brings people together in a harmonious environment. He saw a great need for this new educational system and made a program that no company has done before. It will become the new way we teach and learn in a classroom. In the near future, we should be seeing a phone application for easier access to the community and one day the world. You can find out more about the First Glanz virtual classrooms, virtual talk shows, and their educational social network by visiting <a href="http://www.firstglanz.com" target="_blank">www.firstglanz.com</a>.</p>
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		<title>(PHOTOS) Closer than ever&#8230; The million-to-one black and white twins Kian and Remee turn seven</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 09:02:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One is black and has big brown eyes. The other is a blue-eyed blonde with the palest of skin. &#124; by Daily &#124; 2012 &#124; They might share the same cheeky smile, but side by side, they could hardly look less alike. Yet remarkably, Kian and Remee are twins, born a minute apart. The pair [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_29010" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/article-2123050-125685B6000005DC-512_634x927-450x657.jpg" alt="" title="article-2123050-125685B6000005DC-512_634x927" width="450" height="657" class="size-medium wp-image-29010" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Loving: Black and white twin sisters Kian (left) and Remee (right), seven years after they came into the world </p></div>
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One is black and has big brown eyes. The other is a blue-eyed blonde with the palest of skin.
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<div class="date"><em>| by Daily</em> | 2012 |  </div>
<p><span class="dropCap">T</span>hey might share the same cheeky smile, but side by side, they could hardly look less alike.<span id="more-29009"></span></p>
<p>Yet remarkably, Kian and Remee are twins, born a minute apart.</p>
<p>The pair owe their appearance to a one in a million combination of their parents’ genes. </p>
<p>Mother Kylee Hodgson and father Remi Horder both have white mothers and black fathers.</p>
<p>The startling result is a two-tone set of delightful little girls. </p>
<p>They first attracted international attention when they were featured in the Mail at less than a year old.</p>
<p>Now, approaching their seventh birthday, they have never asked why they don’t look the same, nor have they ever experienced any racial prejudice. </p>
<p>‘They are such a perfect example of how it should be,’ their mother told the Mail. ‘They are not bothered about their skin colour. It’s not the big issue everyone else seems to see it as. It isn’t important to them at all – it’s about what they’re like underneath.’ </p>
<p>Kian and her 60-second older sister were delivered in April 2005 by caesarean section.</p>
<div id="attachment_29011" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/article-0-125C94A9000005DC-821_634x619-450x439.jpg" alt="" title="article-0-125C94A9000005DC-821_634x619" width="450" height="439" class="size-medium wp-image-29011" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Sister act: The twins are in different classes at primary school, and have different interests  </p></div>
<p>Kylee, now 25, recalls the moment she saw them for the first time: ‘I noticed that both of them had beautiful blue eyes,’ she said.</p>
<p>‘But while Remee’s hair was blonde, Kian’s was black and she had darker skin. To me, they were my kids and they were just normal. I thought they would start to look the same as time went on.’ </p>
<p>Time, however, only accentuated their differences. Kian’s eyes changed colour and her skin got darker. Remee’s complexion got lighter and her curly hair stayed blonde. Perhaps unsurprisingly, Kylee found herself fielding questions about whose children they were, or who Kian’s fair-haired friend was, when she pushed them in their side-by-side buggy. </p>
<p>‘People would ask me why I dressed the children the same,’ Kylee said. ‘I’d just say: “because they’re twins,” and leave people to work it out. It kind of irritated me at first, but everyone in my area got to know they were twins and accepted it. It was only strangers or outsiders who didn’t know.’ </p>
<p>Although they share a common bond, the twins are already doing things their own way.</p>
<div id="attachment_29012" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 460px"><img src="http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/article-0-1267E214000005DC-245_634x477-450x338.jpg" alt="" title="article-0-1267E214000005DC-245_634x477" width="450" height="338" class="size-medium wp-image-29012" /><p class="wp-caption-text">How the story was reported in 2006</p></div>
<p>Their appearance may be ebony and ivory, but in character they are chalk and cheese. They learned to walk and talk at different times, even though their first word – ‘Juice!’ – was identical. </p>
<p>Kian, according to her mother, ‘is a bit bossier, a bit louder’. She added: </p>
<p>‘Remee is a bit more laid back. She’ll think a bit longer before she does something.’</p>
<p>Today they are in different classes at school and have different sets of friends. </p>
<p>They both love dancing and sing along to the same records – mostly New York rapper Nicki Minaj and pop star Rihanna. </p>
<p>But their interests are different, Kian has a love of animals and her sister enjoys cookery.</p>
<p>Like many twins though, they have an unspoken, almost intuitive affinity. </p>
<p>‘They get on so well,’ said Kylee, now separated from Remi and living in Dudley, West Midlands. </p>
<p>‘They’re really close,’ she said. ‘They’re best friends – they absolutely love each other. They play together all the time, go swimming together, read their books together, help each other out. </p>
<p>‘If one can’t do their shoes, the other will help. </p>
<p>&#8216;Sometimes they do the same things at the same time. Once, they even sneezed together. That really made me laugh.</p>
<p>‘As they’ve got older, they’ve taught each other everything. They’ve helped each other to grow.</p>
<p>‘And they don’t notice the colour thing, not at all. They’ve grown up with light-skinned people around them, and they’ve grown up with black people. But they’re just themselves. They don’t see what everyone else sees.’</p>
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		<title>3 Things To Take Before You Quit Your Job</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2012 22:14:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, and everyday, countless people awake to go to a job they hate. &#124; by Newsone &#124; Ajob that makes them sick to their stomach to think about. A job where they count the hours until it’s time to leave. And then, they’re up and at it again the next day. (Study finds professionals dissatisfied [...]]]></description>
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<p><span class="dropCap">A</span>job that makes them sick to their stomach to think about. A job where they count the hours until it’s time to leave. And then, they’re up and at it again the next day.<span id="more-28704"></span> (Study finds professionals dissatisfied with their jobs)</p>
<p>Does this sound familiar? For me and many of my coaching clients, this rings true. Early in my career I worked jobs that I didn’t love. Some were a means to an end. Some were playing it safe. And others, I thought were good opportunities. They all amounted to me being unhappy. </p>
<p>Once we identify that it’s time to make a change and leave that job, it can take some time for that new opportunity to materialize. So what do you do in the meantime? My suggestion: Find What To Take.</p>
<p>What I mean by “find what to take” is that right now there are some key things you can take away from your current job that will be very helpful for you in your future endeavors.  These opportunities probably have been right in front of you the whole time.  But because you’ve basked so much in despising your gig you’ve ignored them. So right now it is critical to be proactive and identify what you want to take when you leave.</p>
<p>3 THINGS TO TAKE</p>
<p>Education: Some may want to learn some new software that their company uses while others may want to get a better understanding of budgeting. Maybe you’d like to learn how another department functions. What about that top salesman you could learn a few things from? If you’re into event planning why not volunteer for the next company event.</p>
<p>Relationships: As they say: it’s not what you know, it’s who you know. Cherish every connection. Whether you love your job or not, never stop developing relationships and expanding your network. This is what will make the difference long term in your career and provide you with influence. Always be willing to help others. Plus, you never know when you may have to ask for a favor, like a letter of reference.</p>
<p>Your Integrity: This is paramount and simple.  Be authentic with others. Do what you say you’re going to do. Keep the agreements you make. Take responsibility for your actions.</p>
<p>You get the idea. Opportunities abound but you have to take action.</p>
<p>So today, write down three things that you’d like to take away with you when you leave your job. Those things that will be extremely valuable to you as you move your career forward. Find what to take.</p>
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		<title>12 New Year&#8217;s Resolutions Every Couple Should Make</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Making New Year&#8217;s resolutions as a couple is a sure way to help your relationship rock in 2012. &#124; by Meghan Beresford &#124; New Year&#8217;s resolutions tend to get a bad rap for being, well, fruitless. But making resolutions with a partner can help you stick to your promises and can also strengthen your relationship. [...]]]></description>
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Making New Year&#8217;s resolutions as a couple is a sure way to help your relationship rock in 2012.
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<div class="date"><em>| by Meghan Beresford |</em></div>
<p><span class="dropCap">N</span>ew Year&#8217;s resolutions tend to get a bad rap for being, well, fruitless. But making resolutions with a partner can help you stick to your promises and can also strengthen your relationship.<span id="more-26490"></span> This list of resolutions-for-two will help you ring the New Year in right, and keep your relationship rockin&#8217; all year long.</p>
<p><strong>1) Do &#8220;Good Things&#8221; together (and not just around the holidays).</strong> Everyone feels generous around the holidays, and in December, soup kitchens get so many volunteers that they have to turn helpers away. These organizations need volunteers desperately at other times of the year, so you and your sweetie will make a huge impact if you skip the Christmas day goodness and volunteer year-round instead. If you&#8217;re a Christmas lover, do your good deeds on the 25th of each month. It&#8217;s the gift that keeps on giving!</p>
<p><strong>2) Eat mindfully.</strong> When you&#8217;re coupled, it&#8217;s easy to cozy up on the couch and shovel down Chinese food while watching movies. Not only does this habit pack on the pounds, but it skips the fun and intimacy that can come with preparing and sharing food, too. Choose healthy recipes, and make your date nights special by cooking and eating together. Better than an overpriced restaurant any day!</p>
<p><strong>3) Sweat together.</strong> If you&#8217;re part of a tubby tandem and serious about ditching extra pounds, enlist your partner as a workout buddy. If you&#8217;re not overweight, exercising with your partner is still a great way to improve your overall health. And everyone knows that the rosy cheeks and heavy breathing exercise brings reminds us of other things that involve rosy cheeks and heavy breathing. Speaking of which&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>4) Make sexytime a priority.</strong> When we&#8217;re busy, sex can get lost in the shuffle, but it&#8217;s too good for your relationship, your health, and your mood to skip. Make time to reconnect with your partner in the sack by scheduling a weekend &#8220;staycation.&#8221; If the sex has become lackluster, put some energy into figuring out how to make it exciting again. It might be a new position, a new toy, or just a straight-up change of venue (kitchen, anyone?).</p>
<p><strong>5) Stop squabbling.</strong> If you have a serious beef with your partner, it&#8217;s important to bring it up, but try to avoid petty arguments and insults. One nitpicky fight isn&#8217;t a big deal, but over time, small backbiting comments can erode the foundation of your relationship. Pick your battles. When you sense a fight on the horizon, try to calm yourself momentarily and ask &#8220;Is this worth disturbing the peace for?&#8221; </p>
<p><strong>6) Strive for emotional honesty.</strong> Even the bluntest among us has avoided explaining feelings to a lover at one time or another. It can be hard to share with your partner (especially if you&#8217;re experiencing a thorny, irrational emotion like jealousy) but it&#8217;s important that you keep your mate in the loop so that he can act appropriately. Saying &#8220;I feel&#8221; instead of &#8220;you made me feel&#8221; will help you and your partner stay focused on resolving the negative emotions without it turning into a blamefest.</p>
<p><strong>7) Nuke multitasking.</strong> When you&#8217;re spending time with your sweet, banish buzzes, bleeps and chirps from your computer and phone. Don&#8217;t scroll through your texts while your partner is talking to you, or IM a friend while you&#8217;re supposed to be planning dinner. You may think you can do two things at once, but when you do, you&#8217;re sending your partner the message that they&#8217;re not worth your full attention. If you both have things you must do on your phone or computer, set a block of time aside to accomplish the tasks, and then move on with your evening (and don&#8217;t even think of counting your tech time together as a &#8216;date&#8217;!).</p>
<p><strong> <img src='http://shymagazine.com/shy/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> Treat your partner as well as you treat your friends.</strong> It&#8217;s easy to take your romantic partner for granted, and sometimes we don&#8217;t treat our lovers as well as we should. Like family, we assume that they&#8217;re in it for the long haul and when we&#8217;re stressed, our romantic relationships that take extra abuse. Ask yourself if you say or do things to your partner that you wouldn&#8217;t do to your best friend, and if you discover that you do, adjust your behavior accordingly. And, remember, it takes practice to change a habit; don&#8217;t give up if you don&#8217;t change overnight.</p>
<p><strong>9) Listen. Don&#8217;t nod automatically as he talks.</strong> Don&#8217;t wait for your turn to speak. Don&#8217;t do the dishes while he tells you about his day. Sit down, look him in the eye, pay attention to what he says, and ask follow-up questions. This is one of the best things you can do for your relationship. Active listening is a skill that has to be honed with time and effort, but it&#8217;s incredibly important. Work at it.</p>
<p><strong>10) Criticize less than you praise.</strong> When you spend a lot of time with someone, it becomes easy to overlook the things that are great about them. Instead of dwelling on his bad habits, remind yourself of the reasons you fell for him in the first place. Then remind him! Couples who have been together for a long time tend to forget to compliment one another. Try to dish out three compliments for every criticism, and don&#8217;t be shocked if he mirrors your actions. Shared appreciation breeds kindness and consideration, and what couple couldn&#8217;t use more of that?</p>
<p><strong>11) Break a bad habit together.</strong> If you and your man share a habit that&#8217;s less-than-great for you, help one another break it instead of encouraging the behavior within your relationship. Instead of nudging one another outside for smoke breaks, make a pact to limit yourselves to a certain number of cigarettes a day. If you drink too much together, make a two-drink rule and try to stick to it.</p>
<p><strong>12) Play! One of the worst things about being an adult is the total lack of juice boxes, naptime and recess.</strong> (What&#8217;s up with that?) Thankfully, the dullness of the workday world doesn&#8217;t have to extend to your personal life. Infuse your partnership with a sense of play. Have pillow fights, talk in funny voices, and draw mustaches on the models in your ladymags. Do something creative together&#8230; take a guitar class, throw pottery, or learn to roll sushi. Whatever. Stepping outside of your routine can bring you and your partner closer, and it&#8217;ll ensure that things never get boring between you. </p>
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		<title>Why Women Can Be Bitches</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s A Scientific Reason Why So Many Women Are Bitchy &#124; by Wendy Walsh &#124; We all know the classic bitches: Women who speak their mind rather than bite their tongue. The women who rage against anything that provokes them: the man, the kids, the boss, their PMS. While we like to think their bad [...]]]></description>
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<div class="date"><em>| by Wendy Walsh |</em></div>
<p><span class="dropCap">W</span>e all know the classic bitches: Women who speak their mind rather than bite their tongue. The women who rage against anything that provokes them:<span id="more-25469"></span> the man, the kids, the boss, their PMS. While we like to think their bad behavior is simply a case of bad judgment, new research shows that “bitchy” may be a gene.</p>
<p>Sorry, guys, but it&#8217;s been scientifically proven that a woman can now blame her anger and aggression on her genes. Scientific research found that some women are genetically programmed to be angry and aggressive by a serotonin receptor gene. The good news is that not every woman carries it.</p>
<p>What does this mean for you? Not only is anger and aggression in a woman the fault of her genetics, but it may be passed down to your daughters, too. Yikes.</p>
<p><strong>Why men are attracted to bitches</strong><br />
Ever heard the slogan &#8220;men love bitches&#8221;? The psychology behind the trend is quite simple: Anger, aggressiveness and stubbornness are sometimes perceived as self-confidence and associated with those who have strong boundaries. That kind of personality is sexy to both genders. So, if you happen to be one who feels safe and secure in the presence of a strong personality, then you might also be unknowingly helping to pass those genes. It’s like Darwin’s survival of the fittest: If men keep choosing the bitches, the bitchiest women will live on.</p>
<p>If you have chosen a bitch and aren’t as enamored of her true colors, is there a solution? The answer is in the nature vs. nurture argument. If you want your woman to be less bitchy, nurture, nurture, nurture her. Environment has the ability to overcome, influence and even change our genetics. Likewise, the success of our behavior influences the likelihood that genes will be passed down to future generations. If it’s too late to change your woman, you can keep hope for your daughters. Parental nurture, the way parents bring up their children, may also govern who children become.</p>
<p><strong>Manage her bitchiness</strong></p>
<p>So, how can you help nurture, you ask? The best ways to defend and prevent a woman&#8217;s bitch factor are to:</p>
<p><strong>Make your woman happy</strong><br />
You know the smallest things can make us happy. The thing is you have to do it because you want to, not because we asked you to. And if you&#8217;re really with the right woman, why wouldn&#8217;t you want to do things that make her happy?</p>
<p><strong>Let her win the argument</strong><br />
Even if you don’t completely agree with the new pair of Jimmy Choo shoes she bought, don&#8217;t let a small argument turn into a huge blowout. A lot of the time when couples get into huge fights, they bring up past issues that heighten the argument. Avoid this by downplaying our mistakes and realizing we’re human too.</p>
<p><strong>Accept that, yes, sometimes women are bitches</strong><br />
It&#8217;s how we rise in power and gain control. No one would care about what we had to say if we were just that shy, overly generous woman. Male domination and aggression has occurred since human evolution. If we want to be recognized as equals, we need to be aggressive too.</p>
<p>For those of you guys who are brave enough to tackle these angry, aggressive women, beware that there are health risks involved. Anger and aggression can be a predictor of medical conditions such as high blood pressure. They are also commonly related to heart disease and hypertension. But don’t worry, guys, not all women are genetically programmed to be angry and aggressive.</p>
<p>If you can’t handle bitchy women, I suggest you don’t date them or procreate with them. Until then, you can just patiently wait for that magic pill to come out that treats or curbs anger and aggression.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Facebook is investigating reports of a massive wave of pornographic and violent images being posted to its website. &#124; by FOX&#124; 2011 &#124; The content &#8212; in the form of links, videos, and images &#8212; began to appear Monday and includes doctored photographs of celebrities such as Justin Bieber in compromising situations, acts of violence [...]]]></description>
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<div class="blur1">Facebook is investigating reports of a massive wave of pornographic and violent images being posted to its website.</p></div>
<div class="date"><em>| by FOX| 2011 | </em></div>
<p><span class="dropCap">T</span>he content &#8212; in the form of links, videos, and images &#8212; began to appear Monday and includes doctored photographs of celebrities such as Justin <span id="more-25259"></span>Bieber in compromising situations, acts of violence and self-mutilation and even bestiality.</p>
<p>&#8220;We have recently experienced an increase in reports and we are investigating and addressing the issue,&#8221; Facebook spokesman Andrew Noyes told FoxNews.com. &#8220;We are always working to improve our systems to isolate and remove material that violates our terms. Protecting the people who use Facebook from spam and malicious content is a top priority for us.&#8221;</p>
<p>The flood of explicit material appears to be linked to some sort of spam virus that propagates when unknowing users click on infected content, according to tech site ZDNet.<br />
Facebook users took to Twitter to vent their rage, some even threatening to quit the social network once and for all.</p>
<p>“Facebook, I can handle old person porn but please no more beaten, bloody animals &#8230; NOT COOL,” complained one.</p>
<p>“Seeing a dead dog on my Facebook newsfeed&#8230; Officially deactivating it,” another person tweeted.</p>
<p>“Our parents &#038; grandparents the only ones still on facebook &#038; suddenly a porn section pops up,” joked one user. &#8220;Awkward.&#8221;</p>
<p>Graham Cluely, a senior technology consultant from Internet security firm Sophos, said it was not yet clear how the malicious content was being spread, but added that the website could face long term consequences.</p>
<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s precisely this kind of problem which is likely to drive people away from the site,&#8221; he wrote in a company blog. &#8220;Facebook needs to get a handle on this problem quickly, and prevent it from happening on such a scale again.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>9 things you didn’t know about the life of Steve Jobs</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2011 08:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For all of his years in the spotlight at the helm of Apple, Steve Jobs in many ways remains an inscrutable figure — even in his death. &#124; by Taylor Hatmaker &#124; 2011 &#124; Fiercely private, Jobs concealed most specifics about his personal life, from his curious family life to the details of his battle [...]]]></description>
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<div class="blur1">For all of his years in the spotlight at the helm of Apple, Steve Jobs in many ways remains an inscrutable figure — even in his death.</p>
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<div class="date"><em>| by Taylor Hatmaker | 2011 |</em></div>
<p><span class="dropCap">F</span>iercely private, Jobs concealed most specifics about his personal life, from his curious family life to the details of his battle with pancreatic cancer — a disease that ultimately claimed him on Wednesday, at the age of 56.<span id="more-23827"></span></p>
<p>While the CEO and co-founder of Apple steered most interviews away from the public fascination with his private life, there&#8217;s plenty we know about Jobs the person, beyond the Mac and the iPhone. If anything, the obscure details of his interior life paint a subtler, more nuanced portrait of how one of the finest technology minds of our time grew into the dynamo that we remember him as today.</p>
<p><strong>1. Early life and childhood</strong><br />
Jobs was born in San Francisco on February 24, 1955. He was adopted shortly after his birth and reared near Mountain View, California by a couple named Clara and Paul Jobs. His adoptive father — a term that Jobs openly objected to — was a machinist for a laser company and his mother worked as an accountant.</p>
<p>Later in life, Jobs discovered the identities of his estranged parents. His birth mother, Joanne Simpson, was a graduate student at the time and later a speech pathologist; his biological father, Abdulfattah John Jandali, was a Syrian Muslim who left the country at age 18 and reportedly now serves as the vice president of a Reno, Nevada casino. While Jobs reconnected with Simpson in later years, he and his biological father remained estranged.</p>
<p><strong>2. College dropout</strong><br />
The lead mind behind the most successful company on the planet never graduated from college, in fact, he didn&#8217;t even get close. After graduating from high school in Cupertino, California — a town now synonymous with 1 Infinite Loop, Apple&#8217;s headquarters — Jobs enrolled in Reed College in 1972. Jobs stayed at Reed (a liberal arts university in Portland, Oregon) for only one semester, dropping out quickly due to the financial burden the private school&#8217;s steep tuition placed on his parents.</p>
<p>In his famous 2005 commencement speech to Stanford University, Jobs said of his time at Reed: &#8220;It wasn&#8217;t all romantic. I didn&#8217;t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends&#8217; rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5 cent deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the seven miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple.&#8221;</p>
<p>3. Fibbed to his Apple co-founder about a job at Atari<br />
Jobs is well known for his innovations in personal computing, mobile tech, and software, but he also helped create one of the best known video games of all-time. In 1975, Jobs was tapped by Atari to work on the Pong-like game Breakout.<br />
He was reportedly offered $750 for his development work, with the possibility of an extra $100 for each chip eliminated from the game&#8217;s final design. Jobs recruited Steve Wozniak (later one of Apple&#8217;s other founders) to help him with the challenge. Wozniak managed to whittle the prototype&#8217;s design down so much that Atari paid out a $5,000 bonus — but Jobs kept the bonus for himself, and paid his unsuspecting friend only $375, according to Wozniak&#8217;s own autobiography.</p>
<p><strong>4. The wife he leaves behind</strong><br />
Like the rest of his family life, Jobs kept his marriage out of the public eye. Thinking back on his legacy conjures images of him commanding the stage in his trademark black turtleneck and jeans, and those solo moments are his most iconic. But at home in Palo Alto, Jobs was raising a family with his wife, Laurene, an entrepreneur who attended the University of Pennsylvania&#8217;s prestigious Wharton business school and later received her MBA at Stanford, where she first met her future husband.</p>
<p>For all of his single-minded dedication to the company he built from the ground up, Jobs actually skipped a meeting to take Laurene on their first date: &#8220;I was in the parking lot with the key in the car, and I thought to myself, &#8216;If this is my last night on earth, would I rather spend it at a business meeting or with this woman?&#8217; I ran across the parking lot, asked her if she&#8217;d have dinner with me. She said yes, we walked into town and we&#8217;ve been together ever since.&#8221;<br />
In 1991, Jobs and Powell were married in the Ahwahnee Hotel at Yosemite National Park, and the marriage was officiated by Kobin Chino, a Zen Buddhist monk.</p>
<p><strong>5. His sister is a famous author</strong><br />
Later in his life, Jobs crossed paths with his biological sister while seeking the identity of his birth parents. His sister, Mona Simpson (born Mona Jandali), is the well-known author of Anywhere But Here — a story about a mother and daughter that was later adapted into a film starring Natalie Portman and Susan Sarandon.</p>
<p>After reuniting, Jobs and Simpson developed a close relationship. Of his sister, he told a New York Times interviewer: &#8220;We&#8217;re family. She&#8217;s one of my best friends in the world. I call her and talk to her every couple of days.&#8221; Anywhere But Here is dedicated to &#8220;my brother Steve.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>6. Celebrity romances</strong><br />
In The Second Coming of Steve Jobs, an unauthorized biography, a friend from Reed reveals that Jobs had a brief fling with folk singer Joan Baez. Baez confirmed the the two were close &#8220;briefly,&#8221; though her romantic connection with Bob Dylan is much better known (Dylan was the Apple icon&#8217;s favorite musician). The biography also notes that Jobs went out with actress Diane Keaton briefly.</p>
<p><strong>7. His first daughter</strong><br />
When he was 23, Jobs and his high school girlfriend Chris Ann Brennan conceived a daughter, Lisa Brennan Jobs. She was born in 1978, just as Apple began picking up steam in the tech world. He and Brennan never married, and Jobs reportedly denied paternity for some time, going as far as stating that he was sterile in court documents. He went on to father three more children with Laurene Powell. After later mending their relationship, Jobs paid for his first daughter&#8217;s education at Harvard. She graduated in 2000 and now works as a magazine writer.</p>
<p><strong>8. Alternative lifestyle</strong><br />
In a few interviews, Jobs hinted at his early experience with the psychedelic drug LSD. Of Microsoft founder Bill Gates, Jobs said: &#8220;I wish him the best, I really do. I just think he and Microsoft are a bit narrow. He&#8217;d be a broader guy if he had dropped acid once or gone off to an ashram when he was younger.&#8221;</p>
<p>The connection has enough weight that Albert Hofmann, the Swiss scientist who first synthesized (and took) LSD, appealed to Jobs for funding for research about the drug&#8217;s therapeutic use.</p>
<p>In a book interview, Jobs called his experience with the drug &#8220;one of the two or three most important things I have done in my life.&#8221; As Jobs himself has suggested, LSD may have contributed to the &#8220;think different&#8221; approach that still puts Apple&#8217;s designs a head above the competition.</p>
<p>Jobs will forever be a visionary, and his personal life also reflects the forward-thinking, alternative approach that vaulted Apple to success. During a trip to India, Jobs visited a well-known ashram and returned to the U.S. as a Zen Buddhist.</p>
<p>Jobs was also a pescetarian who didn&#8217;t consume most animal products, and didn&#8217;t eat meat other than fish. A strong believer in Eastern medicine, he sought to treat his own cancer through alternative approaches and specialized diets before reluctantly seeking his first surgery for a cancerous tumor in 2004.</p>
<p><strong>9. His fortune</strong><br />
As the CEO of the world&#8217;s most valuable brand, Jobs pulled in a comically low annual salary of just $1. While the gesture isn&#8217;t unheard of in the corporate world  — Google&#8217;s Larry Page, Sergey Brin, and Eric Schmidt all pocketed the same 100 penny salary annually — Jobs has kept his salary at $1 since 1997, the year he became Apple&#8217;s lead executive. Of his salary, Jobs joked in 2007: &#8220;I get 50 cents a year for showing up, and the other 50 cents is based on my performance.&#8221;</p>
<p>In early 2011, Jobs owned 5.5 million shares of Apple. After his death, Apple shares were valued at $377.64 — a roughly 43-fold growth in valuation over the last 10 years that shows no signs of slowing down.</p>
<p>He may only have taken in a single dollar per year, but Jobs leaves behind a vast fortune. The largest chunk of that wealth is the roughly $7 billion from the sale of Pixar to Disney in 2006. In 2011, with an estimated net worth of $8.3 billion, he was the 110th richest person in the world, according to Forbes. If Jobs hadn&#8217;t sold his shares upon leaving Apple in 1985 (before returning to the company in 1996), he would be the world&#8217;s fifth richest individual.</p>
<p>While there&#8217;s no word yet on plans for his estate, Jobs leaves behind three children from his marriage to Laurene Jobs (Reed, Erin, and Eve), as well as his first daughter, Lisa Brennan-Jobs.</p>
<p>Image credit: Ben Stanfield, Heinrich Klaffs</p>
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		<title>Steve Jobs, the man who changed the world, goes to iHeaven</title>
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<div class="blur1">Apple&#8217;s founder Steve Jobs, the man, who literally changed the world, died on October 5 at age 56.</p>
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<div class="date"><em>| by Pravda | 2011 |</em></div>
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<p>&#8220;Apple has lost a visionary and creative genius, and the world has lost an amazing human being,&#8221; the company said. &#8220;Steve leaves behind a company that only he could have built, and his spirit will forever be the foundation of Apple.&#8221;</p>
<p>His wife Laurene and other family members were staying with Mr. Jobs during the last minutes of his life.</p>
<p>Steve Jobs passed away the  next day after the presentation of Apple&#8217;s new line of products. It was the first time, when Apple&#8217;s founder did not attend the presentation, which became a huge disappointment for the fans of the company. Without Jobs, the presentation was not as successful as they were before. Many people claimed that instead of unveiling the new iPhone 5, the corporation presented an updated version of last-year&#8217;s innovation.  It did not even occur to anyone that Steve Jobs was at the point of death.</p>
<p>U.S. President Barack Obama issued a statement praising Jobs as one of the greatest American innovators who has brought joy to millions.</p>
<p>&#8220;Michelle and I are saddened to learn of the passing of Steve Jobs. Steve was among the greatest of American innovators &#8211; brave enough to think differently, bold enough to believe he could change the world, and talented enough to do it,&#8221; Obama said.</p>
<p>&#8220;By making computers personal and putting the internet in our pockets, he made the information revolution not only accessible, but intuitive and fun,&#8221; he added.</p>
<p>&#8220;Steve, thank you for being a mentor and a friend. Thanks for showing that what you build can change the world. I will miss you,&#8221; Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg wrote.</p>
<p>&#8220;Steve and I first met nearly 30 years ago, and have been colleagues, competitors and friends over the course of more than half our lives,&#8221; Jobs&#8217; longtime rival, Microsoft co-founder Bill Gates, said. &#8220;The world rarely sees someone who has had the profound impact Steve has had, the effects of which will be felt for many generations to come,&#8221; RIA Novosti reports.</p>
<p>Twitter erupted with a fast-moving stream of emotional reactions, and the hashtags #ThankYouSteve, RIP Steve Jobs and Only 56 became trending topics within hours. The online community also created hashtags #iDead, #iHeaven, #iClouds and #iSad &#8211; similar to names of Apple&#8217;s iconic products.</p>
<p>There have also been numerous re-twits of the Apple&#8217;s founder&#8217;s famous phrase &#8220;Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.&#8221;</p>
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