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Although some women will gracefully bow out if they see that the guy they’ve had their eye on is already involved with another woman, others will see this as a challenge that they can’t help but take on.

So, why do women compete for men? Quite simply, they want what they cannot have. Some women fight for a man’s attention because they believe all the good guys are taken and that any man that is involved with a woman must have it going on. If a guy is single, women assume there must be a good reason. The longing for someone who is off-limits is what draws other women to compete for a man, and a lot of women find a taken man intriguing and something that they just cannot pass up. The simple fact that they can’t have a certain man is precisely what makes women want what’s off limits.

If a competitive woman of this nature truly believes that a certain guy is the one for them and they are meant to be together, she may very well stop at nothing to ensure that they end up together. The fact that he is involved with another woman means absolutely nothing to some women because, in their minds, he is with the wrong girl– he just doesn’t know it yet! She may try to seek out the other woman’s flaws and weaknesses and exploit them to her advantage by bringing them to the man’s attention, thinking that this will help her cause and make herself look good in the man’s eyes.

Unfortunately, another side of female competition is dealing with power-hungry women who would actually get joy and satisfaction from taking away another woman’s man. This type of power-hungry woman probably never displayed the least amount of interest in a man while he was single, but was all over him once she discovered that he had a girlfriend. In this situation, a guy may interpret the power-hungry woman’s intense flirting as a sign of genuine interest when in reality she may not even like him at all and is simply being used to satisfy her unhealthy need for power over another woman. A lot of women only date married men for this exact reason.

Remember, women want what other women have, and the more out of reach you are, the more appealing you are to them. So use this warped female reasoning to your advantage by surrounding yourself with as many quality women as possible when you go out, as this will make you virtually irresistible.

The good thing about flirty text messages are the lack of pressure and awkwardness. If things become awkward you text back with an, “Lol JK” and move on to something else. Having trouble coming up with the perfect flirty text message for your Valentine’s crush? I’ve got the top 10 flirty messages to really let your crush know how you feel!

1. U + Me = <3

How cute is this? Let your crush know that you “less than 3 him.” He is bound to respond with a smiley face or his own equally witty and enduring message. It’s cute, simple, and to the point, and that’s why I love it.

2. Just Thinking About You This Morning, Happy Valentine’s Day!

This Valentine’s Day flirty text message is a little coy. It could come off as an innocent, “Hello” but if your crush likes you as well he is bound to find the deeper meaning behind it. Guys sometimes miss the subtle hints we give when we like them. This is a great text to test the waters and see where his head is at!

3. It’s 2:14 What’s Your Valentine’s Wish? I Know What Mine Is…

You know how some people believe in making wishes at 11:11, this is the same idea but uses the date of Valentine’s Day, as the magic wish granting time. The key is to send the text at exactly 2:14. Of course he is going to want to know what your Valentine’s wish is. Now you have to decide what you want to tell him.

4. I Think You Stole My Heart…

You can start this flirty text off by asking him if he is a criminal, or telling him you are going to call the cops on him. When he asks why, you can accuse him of stealing your heart. It might be a little cheesy, but may also make for a good laugh.

5. This Movie Would Be So Much Better If You Were Here

Follow this text up with, “What are you doing for Valentine’s Day?” It let’s your crush know you want to spend time with him and enjoy his company. It also plants the seed that a Valentine’s date would be the perfect opportunity to make plans.

6. Blank Text

Send a mysterious text with no message at all. He will probably text something back asking why there isn’t a message. If it were me, I would pretend to not know what he was talking about and tell him he doesn’t need to make excuses to text me; he can send me a message anytime. Or you could always send back a flirty text to let him know that you’re interested and maybe want to find out about his V-Day plans! Of course, you can play it off however you want.

7. I Lost My Teddy Bear, Can I Cuddle With You?

Oh, I love this. I love cuddles. Why wouldn’t he want to be your teddy bear? I think this text is too awesome for any guy to resist. If he is a super thoughtful, he may just buy you a new teddy bear to cuddle with when he’s not around.

8. I Had The Most Incredible Dream About You Last Night…

Here is a flirty text good for any time, not just Valentine’s Day. Be ready to share the details of your dream. If you didn’t have a dream, make one up. Don’t make the mistake of coming on too strong. A dream where he gets to be the hero saving your from great danger maybe better than the details of something hot and steamy.

9. Hey Valentines, How’s Your Day Going?

Here is another simple, no pressure text. You let him know he’s your special Valentine’s this year, but your real question is about his day. Give him a chance to take the lead from there and see where it goes.

10. Will You Be My Valentine?

Be direct. Send a flirty text telling your crush you want him to be yours. Chance are you have a pretty good idea how he feels about you, so what do you have to lose?

Flirty text are fun and innocent and a great way to let your crush know you are interested in him on Valentine’s Day. It’s easy to send a flirty text, and you can keep things cute and casual while still letting someone know you like them. Do you have some other good ideas for flirty text to send on Valentine’s Day? Please share your ideas!

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Have you been trying to understand her actions but just can’t seem to figure them out? Well, the reason she’s been acting differently may be because she is losing interest in you.

If you see that your girlfriend exhibits any of the following warning signs, you have reason to be concerned.

1. She puts her girlfriends ahead of you

All women are entitled to a girl’s night out here and there with their girlfriends, but if spending time with their girlfriends has begun to take priority over you and she consistently leaves you at home to gallivant in nightclubs, she is definitely losing interest in you.

2. She avoids public affection with you

If your girlfriend has allowed you to kiss her or hold her hand in public in the past and suddenly begins rejecting your advances or moves away from you without an obvious reason, you have reason to worry about her interest level in the relationship.

3. She’s lost interest in sex (with you)

If she has suddenly become bored by your performance in bed and you’re rarely hitting the sheets anymore, she may be wishing for someone else to rub her the right way.

4. She starts fights with you

If she has all of a sudden noticeably lowered her tolerance level for your little mistakes, constantly picks fights and turns every little thing into an argument or a disagreement, chances are her interest level has lowered and she is probably unhappy about the way your relationship is going.

5. She shows interest in other guys

If you notice your girlfriend openly checking out other guys and flirting with other men while you’re right there beside her, it could be her way of sending you a subtle message that she’s shopping around for another man.

6. She’s put distance between you

A woman who is in a happy relationship always makes time for her partner. So if all of a sudden you don’t see your girlfriend for a week or more and when she does answer your calls, she is busy and is always in a rush to get off the phone with you, something is definitely wrong.Take this as hint that she wants time apart to explore what it feels like to be away from you.

7. She’s no longer affectionate toward you

If she just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you’re always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, a breakup may be impending.

8. She begins saying “I” instead of “we”

If you feel like your girlfriend hardly talks, doesn’t contribute much to the conversations you have your and she starts to use “I” instead of “we” when talking about the future, this means that she does not see a future with you in it anymore.

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It’s common to fight with the person that means the most to you. Ladies, do you know what the most common relationship fights are though? That’s what we’re going to talk about below, that way – the next time you’re in a fight with your boy, you’ll be able to identify exactly what the real issue is!

1. Money

Number 1 relationship fight by far is over money. Do you have enough, do you have too little – are you financially strained? These are all questions that can spark a fight. Once the money talk starts, expect some type of fight to ensue, unless you defuse it really quick.

2. Jealousy

The next common relationship fight shouldn’t surprise you: jealousy. If your boyfriend is hanging out with a girl, you’re probably jealous, even if they are only friends. If you’re hanging out with a guy friend, your boyfriend is probably jealous. It’s human nature, but remember to keep your jealousy in check, before a relationship fight erupts!

3. Incompatibility

Sometimes, if you’ve been with someone for a while, you just aren’t compatible anymore. Heck, if could be because you two grew apart, it could be because of the different interests, it could be because you two live opposite lifestyles. If you’ve been having too many fights about incompatibility, it might be time to look at your relationship though.

4. Priorities

If you’ve been with someone for a while, your priorities should be similar to one another. If family is important to you, it should be a priority for your boyfriend too. If your career is important to you, it should be important to your boyfriend too. These are core things to keep in mind when you’re thinking long-term with someone.

5. Lack of Sex

Oh-em-gee, is this one of the biggest relationship fights out there for a lot of couples. Men want to have sex all of the time, women aren’t giving it up easily – it’s a circle! If you’re having this problem, you might want to look into it a little closer, maybe there is a deeper meaning of why you aren’t having sex more often.

6. The Past

Every single time that I bring up the past with the Better Half, it typically turns into a fight or adds to a fight nonetheless. The motto ladies? The past is the past, you can’t change it and it isn’t going anywhere. If you’re in a fight, leave the past out of it, if you’re starting a fight, leave the past alone.

7. Stress

Everyone in the world gets stressed out. You’ve had a bad day at work, you’ve had a stressful day at home – don’t take it out on your partner. Your partner is the one that should relax you, not stress you out!

8. Going Out

Finally ladies, the last common fight starter in a relationship that I’ve seen is all about going out. Your boy wants to go out, you don’t want to, he still goes. It all boils down to compromise ladies. Even if you don’t want to go out all of the time, once in a while, go out and then once in a while, he stays in.

Dealing with relationship fights isn’t fun, but it’s common. If you’re in a relationship, you’re bound to have some relationship fights throughout your relationship. So ladies, what are some of the silliest relationship fights you’ve ever been in? Come on, spill!

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Guys are super hard to read sometimes, especially if he’s your crush. Well ladies, don’t worry, I’ve got the low-down on what your guys are thinking so you’ll be able to tell if he is into you! Below, we’re going to go over the top 7 tips and tricks to figure out if he is into you!

1. He Talks About You

Guys actually talk about girls that they like. They talk about girls that they have a crush on and that they’re into to everyone – but the girl. So, if you have a feeling that he is into you, you might want to chat up his friends! Who knows, maybe one of ‘em will spill the beans and let you know that he is into you!

2. The Conversation

One of the surefire ways that you can tell that he is into you is the conversations he has. I swear ladies, guys don’t just spark up one of those ‘get to know you’ conversations just to brush you off. They have to be into the person that they are talking to. So if your crush is chattin’ you up, he’s definitely into you!
3. The Looks

He looks at you, you catch him, he looks away. Rinse, repeat, rinse, repeat – does that happen often with a guy that you’re into? Well ladies, that is a coy little trick that guys use to get your attention. Does this trick sound familiar? It’s probably because girls do it too – maybe we aren’t so different huh?

4. Unexpected Appearances

You could be anywhere from shopping all the way to your job and he could show up. Maybe he’s just dropping by, maybe he wanted to find out where you were and asked around. Whatever the case, if you find the guy you’re crushing on showing up out of nowhere, that’s a surefire sign that he is into you!

5. Touching

We do this one too girls. If we’re into a guy, we’re constantly touching his arms, brushing ‘lint’ off of his shoulder, brushing hair from his eyes. If your guy is doing any of these, it might be a sign that he is into you!

6. Pays Attention

Face it, guys have a really short attention span. Most of the time, they don’t pay attention to anything. If you notice your guy picking up on the little things about you that you think nobody notices, he is totally into you!

7. Casual Invites

Whether he is asking you out alone or asking you out in a group, casual invites are another sign that he’s totally into you. The invite could be as simple as a dinner or as casual as just coming over to his place to hang out. After all, guys don’t hang out with girls that they aren’t into – at least in some way!

There are tons of different ways that you can find out if he is into you! Ladies, you just gotta pay attention and make sure that you look at the signs! So ladies, what signs do you look for if you’re left puzzled if he is into you? Come on, share your experiences!

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While certainly not as taboo as it has been in the past, anal sex is still a little outside the norm in the average bedroom. Strictly speaking, the anus was not designed for penetration, but when done right, butt play can feel pretty amazing. If you’re planning on putting anal on the sexual menu with your girlfriend, there are a few dos and don’ts to keep in mind so that both of you enjoy it.

Don’t do it if she’s pregnant
Anal sex is best avoided during pregnancy. The first reason to skip anal while she’s with child is that hemorrhoids are a common side effect of pregnancy and could make anal sex very painful. Secondly, you don’t want to risk an infection in her vagina if you happen to transfer bacteria from her anus to her vagina. The most important reason to not suggest having anal sex while she’s experiencing the joys of pregnancy is that it will not score you any daddy points. Tell her you think pregnant women are sexy and do it the old-fashioned way.

Do use a lot of lube
Remember, the anus does not produce its own lubrication like the vagina does, so using plenty of silicone or water based lubricant is very important to creating a safe and comfortable experience for both of you. Some companies make lubes that they claim are designed specifically for anal penetration, but any lube will do as long as you use plenty of it. Using a thicker lube — usually silicone –will ensure that your slipperiness will not evaporate before the deed is done.

Don’t use numbing creams
There are a variety of numbing creams and gels available to decrease the sensation in her anus, and she may be tempted to use them if she’s afraid of the pain. Not being able to feel the pain could be dangerous, though, since pain is your body’s way of telling you something’s wrong — she could get seriously hurt without realizing it. Instead of numbing her out, prepare her with plenty of anal foreplay using your fingers, tongue and toys before the main event. Most importantly, make sure she is relaxed and comfortable.

Do use protection
You may think that wearing a condom for anal sex isn’t necessary since she can’t get pregnant, but the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is actually more likely with anal penetration than with vaginal. The skin around the anal area is thinner and more susceptible to tiny cuts and tears, which allows STIs through. So unless you’re 100% sure both of you are monogamous and disease-free, putting a condom on for anal sex is essential.

Do let her set the pace
Make sure you and your partner both enjoy the anal sex experience by letting her call the shots. How fast, how far and how hard are all things that should be up to her. You can’t be as rough or enthusiastic as you might be with vaginal intercourse — at least not right away. Let her get used to it by going slow, and if she says stop, stop immediately, or she may decide anal is no longer an option.

Don’t penetrate elsewhere afterward
Don’t put your penis in her butt and then immediately penetrate another part of her body (i.e., vagina, mouth). You may have picked up bacteria at the back door that could cause infections elsewhere. Plus, it’s gross. Yes, porn girls love them some ATM, but unless your girl specifically asks for it, don’t go there.

There are rules for a reason
It may seem like there are a whole lot of rules for something that should be fun, but they really are for your (and her) own good. Giving your girl a bad anal sex experience virtually obliterates your chances of ever doing it again. Make it good for both of you by following these important dos and don’ts of anal sex.

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New Year’s resolutions tend to get a bad rap for being, well, fruitless. But making resolutions with a partner can help you stick to your promises and can also strengthen your relationship. This list of resolutions-for-two will help you ring the New Year in right, and keep your relationship rockin’ all year long.

1) Do “Good Things” together (and not just around the holidays). Everyone feels generous around the holidays, and in December, soup kitchens get so many volunteers that they have to turn helpers away. These organizations need volunteers desperately at other times of the year, so you and your sweetie will make a huge impact if you skip the Christmas day goodness and volunteer year-round instead. If you’re a Christmas lover, do your good deeds on the 25th of each month. It’s the gift that keeps on giving!

2) Eat mindfully. When you’re coupled, it’s easy to cozy up on the couch and shovel down Chinese food while watching movies. Not only does this habit pack on the pounds, but it skips the fun and intimacy that can come with preparing and sharing food, too. Choose healthy recipes, and make your date nights special by cooking and eating together. Better than an overpriced restaurant any day!

3) Sweat together. If you’re part of a tubby tandem and serious about ditching extra pounds, enlist your partner as a workout buddy. If you’re not overweight, exercising with your partner is still a great way to improve your overall health. And everyone knows that the rosy cheeks and heavy breathing exercise brings reminds us of other things that involve rosy cheeks and heavy breathing. Speaking of which…

4) Make sexytime a priority. When we’re busy, sex can get lost in the shuffle, but it’s too good for your relationship, your health, and your mood to skip. Make time to reconnect with your partner in the sack by scheduling a weekend “staycation.” If the sex has become lackluster, put some energy into figuring out how to make it exciting again. It might be a new position, a new toy, or just a straight-up change of venue (kitchen, anyone?).

5) Stop squabbling. If you have a serious beef with your partner, it’s important to bring it up, but try to avoid petty arguments and insults. One nitpicky fight isn’t a big deal, but over time, small backbiting comments can erode the foundation of your relationship. Pick your battles. When you sense a fight on the horizon, try to calm yourself momentarily and ask “Is this worth disturbing the peace for?”

6) Strive for emotional honesty. Even the bluntest among us has avoided explaining feelings to a lover at one time or another. It can be hard to share with your partner (especially if you’re experiencing a thorny, irrational emotion like jealousy) but it’s important that you keep your mate in the loop so that he can act appropriately. Saying “I feel” instead of “you made me feel” will help you and your partner stay focused on resolving the negative emotions without it turning into a blamefest.

7) Nuke multitasking. When you’re spending time with your sweet, banish buzzes, bleeps and chirps from your computer and phone. Don’t scroll through your texts while your partner is talking to you, or IM a friend while you’re supposed to be planning dinner. You may think you can do two things at once, but when you do, you’re sending your partner the message that they’re not worth your full attention. If you both have things you must do on your phone or computer, set a block of time aside to accomplish the tasks, and then move on with your evening (and don’t even think of counting your tech time together as a ‘date’!).

Treat your partner as well as you treat your friends. It’s easy to take your romantic partner for granted, and sometimes we don’t treat our lovers as well as we should. Like family, we assume that they’re in it for the long haul and when we’re stressed, our romantic relationships that take extra abuse. Ask yourself if you say or do things to your partner that you wouldn’t do to your best friend, and if you discover that you do, adjust your behavior accordingly. And, remember, it takes practice to change a habit; don’t give up if you don’t change overnight.

9) Listen. Don’t nod automatically as he talks. Don’t wait for your turn to speak. Don’t do the dishes while he tells you about his day. Sit down, look him in the eye, pay attention to what he says, and ask follow-up questions. This is one of the best things you can do for your relationship. Active listening is a skill that has to be honed with time and effort, but it’s incredibly important. Work at it.

10) Criticize less than you praise. When you spend a lot of time with someone, it becomes easy to overlook the things that are great about them. Instead of dwelling on his bad habits, remind yourself of the reasons you fell for him in the first place. Then remind him! Couples who have been together for a long time tend to forget to compliment one another. Try to dish out three compliments for every criticism, and don’t be shocked if he mirrors your actions. Shared appreciation breeds kindness and consideration, and what couple couldn’t use more of that?

11) Break a bad habit together. If you and your man share a habit that’s less-than-great for you, help one another break it instead of encouraging the behavior within your relationship. Instead of nudging one another outside for smoke breaks, make a pact to limit yourselves to a certain number of cigarettes a day. If you drink too much together, make a two-drink rule and try to stick to it.

12) Play! One of the worst things about being an adult is the total lack of juice boxes, naptime and recess. (What’s up with that?) Thankfully, the dullness of the workday world doesn’t have to extend to your personal life. Infuse your partnership with a sense of play. Have pillow fights, talk in funny voices, and draw mustaches on the models in your ladymags. Do something creative together… take a guitar class, throw pottery, or learn to roll sushi. Whatever. Stepping outside of your routine can bring you and your partner closer, and it’ll ensure that things never get boring between you.

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Anyway.

Right here, right now, it’s time to throw down and end this vicious cycle of bad dates. Now that a new decade has dawned, here are 10 fellas I’m going to downgrade from black book to blacklist — and never allow to grace my single life again. In order of unsuitability:

10) The Daredevil
Why: Because I bleed enough each month for both of us, adrenaline-head. And I’m over men with a need to go 90. On their motorcycles. In freezing rain. Or take on the double black diamond when they’ve never actually strapped on skis before. My days of scraping men up off the sidewalk are over. In 2011, there will be no more games of playing nurse to his knucklehead. “Hey, watch this!” doesn’t have to end with a trip to the emergency room. Wear a helmet.

9) Summer of ’69
Why: Because it doesn’t matter that you can run a six-minute mile if you remember Vietnam. Studies have shown that children of fathers 40 and older are at higher risk for autism, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and cancer. Wait, there’s more. Despite what your Summer of ’69 may claim, studies have shown that male fertility diminishes with age. Oh, joy! While we ladies may experience occasional bouts of bitterness about our biological tickers, at least we can rest assured that we aren’t the only ones winding down.

The Drummer
Why: Because dating should not be a group effort. Let’s face it: Falling for the drummer means you’ve got to love the singer, bassist, guitarist, roadies and psycho fans, too. I’m sure that true, lasting love can exist between a woman and a drummer, but being “with the band” can turn into one hell wicked abomination. I’d rather roll solo and leave him to play with his sticks.

7) Damaged Goods
Why: Because you shouldn’t be out there dating without a warning label. All last year, I’d be out on a date and suddenly it would occur to me, Um, this one’s all broken. In 2011, I’m saying good-bye to the ménage-a-trois with single men and their therapists, dudes still hurting from nasty divorces finalized just last month, and the suicidal hipsters of Nerve.com. Sayonara to anyone who would be better described as a fixer-upper: I’m done renovating men.

6) Hippie Dudes
Why: Because I’ve seen homeless men with better hygiene. I know plenty of people who co-exist perfectly well with their heads of long, lovely dreadlocks. So why is it that this ‘do smells so bad on the majority of young, hippie dudes? Because only a young, single, hippie dude would actually believe that sporting dreadlocks is an alternative to washing his hair. Save the whales. Stop war. Reduce and recycle. Whatever. So long as you believe in the power of a shower.

5) Party People
Why: Because I don’t like considering the popo as “regulars.” I’ve got a great idea. Let’s, like, not party till the fuzz bust down the door. Next year, I’m not settling for a dude who regularly blacks out and must be informed the next day that he had a “rocking’ time” last night. Nor am I sitting on the couch while he breaks the Guinness world record for biggest bong hit ever. In fact, I’ve decided that there will be no more guys who employ the word “party” as a verb in my life.

4) The Lost Cause
Why: Because you’ll still be “finding yourself” in India in 2020. OK, I must admit, I’ve been known to swoon at the feet of dreamy-eyed explorers who’ve recently rechristened themselves Jivamukti. But if the man hasn’t “found himself” by now, chances are, his quest isn’t about to end anytime soon, and I’m no longer content to ride sidecar down Identity Crisis Lane.

3) The Flake
Why: Because “I forgot” is not a valid excuse. Did the dog eat his brain or something? How many times was I stood up in 2011 because some guy totally dropped the ball? Clearing my schedule for a date, getting stood up and consequently spending the evening watching DVDs with my cat will not be acceptable in 2011.

2) The Town Bicycle
Why: Because I’m not hopping on that after he’s been ridden all over town. So we all get a “slut phase” (or two) in our lives. Growing pains. But ever get the feeling that it isn’t just a phase with him? There are those who love sex and those who LOVE sex. Men who store their brains in their nether-regions are out of the picture next year.

1) Mr. Perfect
Why: Because I concede that my blacklist has been a bit, black, but that’s not to say I’m looking for some ideal male specimen either. In 2011, I’ll be ready to embrace quirks, childhood scars and the odd piece of baggage, too. Let’s hear it for all the little cracks and imperfections that make a good man unique, lovable and absolutely real.

Here’s hoping that love is in the cards for you in 2011, and if not, then may the single life be ever-eventful.

Now tell us: Who’s moving from your black book to your blacklist in 2011?

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If you’re hanging out with a guy that you really think is into you, you might want to watch out for signs he is into her! Below, I’ve got the top 9 signs he is into her for you to watch out for next time you are into a guy and think he might be into someone else!

1. He Includes Her Always

If you’re seeing a guy that is constantly including your BFF – it is definitely one of the signs he is into her and not you. If he’s inviting her out, constantly including her in group dates and in general, just asking her out, it might be a sign that he likes you. It might hurt for a while if you really do like the guy, but just watch out for this top sign that he’s into her and you should be okay!

2. He Calls Her

While your crush might call you once in a while, one of the surefire signs he is into her is that he’ll call her constantly. Whether she is out with her friends or she is at work, he’ll give her a call just to hear her voice. Guys typically only call girls that they like, remember that.

3. Makes Last Minutes Plans to See Her

When a guy is into a girl, he doesn’t always have to make concrete plans with her for a weekend. Making last minute plans with a girl is definitely one of the surefire signs he is into her! Whether it is a quick lunch or just a small dinner, if it’s last minute, it means he couldn’t wait to see her.

4. Talks About Her

Guys are actually just as bad as girls when it comes to gossiping. They don’t like to mention it, but guys will talk about a girl that they are into so often. If you’re noticing your guy friend talking a lot about your friend, it’s definitely one of the many signs he is into her!

5. He’s Constantly Touching Her

Guys touch girls that they like. It’s just a natural thing – to have an arm around the a girl’s shoulders, to touch their hair, to touch their face. If you’re seeing a guy constantly touch a friend of yours, he is definitely into her!

6. Buys Her Gifts

It’s pretty natural for a guy to buy a girl gifts when they are dating. Little trinkets, jewelry or even just flowers, they all make an impact! If your friends are being showered in gifts, you can bet that the guy that is doing it is into them!

7. Asks ‘Getting to Know You’ Questions to Her

Typically, it’s really hard to tell if a guy is into a girl. If he’s beginning to ask deep and meaningful questions, it’s one sign that he’s into a girl. The questions can range from her favorite food all the way to what’s her favorite sexual position (not on the first date please). Typically, he just really wants to find out more information about the girl to see if she is dating material!

8. Texts Her

Texting is huge isn’t it? How often do you text your friends? What about that guy you like? It’s the same for guys ladies, they text when they like someone. If your friend is constantly getting texts from a guy – he’s totally into her!

9. Keeps His Promises to Her

Guys typically have a really, really hard time keeping promises to girls that don’t capture their attention and that they like. If a guy is keeping all of his promises, he’s typically into the girl that he is keeping the promises to. Remember that if a guy isn’t keeping promises to you!

Noticing some of the signs he is into her can be hard! After all, if you’re into the guy that is into your best friend, it’s a touchy subject. So ladies, what signs he is into her have you noticed? Any tips to share that you’ve seen when a guy is smitten?

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The holidays are coming up ladies and you know what that means: holiday stress comes with it! Don’t worry though, there are tons of ways to deal with holiday stress as a couple and below, I’m going to help you survive the holidays with your man!

1. Talk About Expectations

When you’re dealing with holiday stress, you don’t want any surprises. If you have expectations from your man during the holidays, make sure that he’s aware of them! If you expect him to meet your family, want him to get you that special gift, want him to be polite all of the time – tell him. Always, during the holidays and really anytime during the year, keep the lines of communication open!

2. Make Plans

It’s important that whenever you’re dealing with holiday stress to have a plan. Where are you going on the holidays? Are you going together? What are you bringing? Ladies, it’s a must to have at least a small sketch of a plan!

3. Non-Competitive Games

It seems like when the holidays roll around, I always have something to prove. This is a great way to start a fight and to hurt feelings. If you’re going to be playing games, make sure there is either very little or no competition games – or maybe you could try some team games? That’ll make you and your spouse bond!

4. Anticipate Holiday Stress Beforehand

Holiday stress is something that you can anticipate. If you’re feeling spiteful and snappy? It’s probably due to the fact you’re stressed out. Just remember, you want to calm down, breathe deep and talk to your partner, they’ll understand!

5. Don’t Snap

Remember when I said, if you feel snappy, just remember it’s all due to holiday stress? Well ladies, don’t snap. Even if you really, really want to and you’re really, really annoyed, just calm down and remember that it’s just the holidays, that’s all.

6. Pack Beforehand

If you and your partner are gonna be traveling for the holidays, pack first! It’ll save you a ton of stress and heck, you’ll be able to make sure that you have everything. The holidays aren’t even here yet and ladies, I’m already packed!

7. Understand Family Drama

Family drama happens ladies, it can happen in your family it can happen in your boy’s family. During the holidays, it’s really difficult for everyone. So ladies, just make sure that you calm down and realize, it’s all holiday stress!

With the holidays later this month, aren’t you glad to be armed with these 7 holiday stress tips? I can’t wait for Christmas and the New Year – but I know that the holiday stress is gonna be hard to deal with. What do you ladies do to deal with the stress? Do you meditate? Yoga? Talk it out? Come on, give me something!