Selena Gomez //

The 18-year-old Disney princess has said, “I am so excited and cannot wait for you guys to hear the next single!! Year Without Rain! We just shot the video in the desert Cant wait for ya’ll to see it! Love you!!!”

Enjoy the vid below!

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Women in competition include Brandy, Dirty Dancing’s Jennifer Grey, Margaret Cho, The Hills‘ Audrina Patridge, Brady Bunch mom Florence Henderson and Bristol Palin.

Male contestants include Michael Bolton, Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino (not pictured), David Hasselhoff, retired NFL quarterback Kurt Warner, Cory in the House actor Kyle Massey and Rick Fox.

DWTS returns Monday, September 20 at 8/7c on ABC!

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Rihanna was also spotted on set while co-star Brooklyn Decker has been in New York City rooting on husband Andy Roddick in NYC at the US Open tennis tournament.

Rihanna’s new single “Only Girl (In The World),” was produced by Stargate, who produced her smash hits “Hate That I Love You” and “Don’t Stop the Music.” The song will premiere on Tuesday, Sept. 7, at 3AM PST/6AM EST. Stay tuned!

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The 42-year-old singer recently chatted with People about the power fragrance can have. “I remember buying my future husband a perfume that he was wearing at the time and I bought myself the same one to spray my pillow with his scent, and I was almost spraying my body with it,” she shared. “It was like I wanted to carry his scent as well.”

Pure Brilliance is a floral scent with notes of pear, apple, green leaves, freesia and honeysuckle. The fragrance hits stores on Monday, September 6 and starts at $28!

Photo: Vibe //

This will be the first-ever televised solo performance from Young Money’s first lady — and we can’t wait!!!

Beginning Tuesday, September 7th, Nicki will launch a Twitter contest in which ten lucky fans will win a front row spot to watch her performance. Winners will be announced on Friday, September 10th.

“I am truly honored to be a part of this year’s VMAs,” Nicki says. “Just yesterday I was an underground female rapper. See Barbz? Dreams do come true.”

As previously announced, comedienne Chelsea Handler will host the show and Linkin Park, Usher, Paramore, Eminem, Kanye West, Justin Bieber, Drake, B.o.B and Florence + The Machine will perform, along with Travie McCoy, Jason Derulo and Robyn who will take the stage with this year’s VMA house artist, deadmau5. In addition, Nicki, Ke$ha, Emma Stone, Penn Badgley, Ashley Greene, Selena Gomez, Ne-Yo, Trey Songz, and The Social Network’s Justin Timberlake, Jesse Eisenberg and Andrew Garfield are confirmed to present.

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Before they were able to land their current roster of dancers for the upcoming season, which includes Jersey Shore’s Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino, Dancing With The Stars was rejected by many people.

Mark Zuckerberg, the creator of Facebook, was approached by the show, but he passed. They should have checked his profile first to see if DWTS was in his “Favorite TV Shows” section on his Facebook page.

Sylvester Stallone was also approached about doing the show. He declined the offer, but we wouldn’t be surprised if the offer spurred an idea in his head for his own show. Dancing With The Former Action Stars? Who wouldn’t want to see Dolph Lundgren let loose on stage?

DWTS was also rejected by Ann Coulter, Condoleeza Rice, Julia Roberts the real Erin Brockovich, Richard Branson, Suzanne Somers, Kirstie Alley no duh, and Joel McHale.

We’re not really sure why Tim Allen and Drew Carey declined the offer though. Tim Allen’s got nothing better to do, other than hang around and pray that they decide to make Toy Story 4. As for Drew Carey, he’s in the best shape of his life! He should totally do the show!

Would U go on Dancing With The Stars if they invited you?

John Travolta //

“John Travolta has been cheating on Kelly for years! And when the details emerge, he’s gonna make Tiger Woods look like a boy scout,” said Robert Randolph, author of the memoir, You’ll Never Spa in This Town Again.

Apparently, Travolta has been a participant in Hollywood’s “secret gay spa subculture,” where the actor has engaged in “lewd sex acts with other men” on several occasions.

Yikes! Wonder what Kelly will think!

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Me, I notice a guy’s smile… which makes me think that it’s pretty likely that might be what guys are seeing when THEY look at ME! So I always make sure my teeth are clean and that my smile is bright and healthy. I’m always pestering my dentist for new ways to keep my mouth healthy, and here are his tips…

1. Brush twice a day
Sure, you learned to keep your teeth brushed when you were a kid, but I was shocked to learn how many adults don’t brush every day! I brush TWICE a day, and my dentist says that’s best. Brush once in the morning, and once at night before bed… and if you can, brush after lunch, too!

2. Floss once a day
My dentist also recommends, or rather, demands, that I floss once a day. He says it’s best to do it before brushing at bedtime, to make sure the spaces between our teeth are clean, and not harboring bits of food. Nasty!

3. Rinse once a day
There are lots of rinses out there, all of them promising a cleaner, healthier mouth or a whiter smile. Choose a rinse that gives you what you want, whether it’s that whiter smile or the fresher breath, and use it once a day, before or after brushing, according to the directions on the bottle.

4. Get cleanings every 6 months
Your dentist and hygienist are the perfect team for making sure your smile is gorgeous and your mouth is healthy, so be sure to visit them every 6 months. If they feel you need more frequent visit, or to see you less often, they’ll let you know… and nothing feels better than a good teeth cleaning!

5. Treat problems right away!
If you notice a problem in your mouth, whether it’s an odd sore or a loose filling, get to your dentist as soon as you can. Problems with your teeth and gums can get worse quickly, and who wants that?

6. Beware of foods that stain teeth
Even if your mouth is healthy, it may not look that way if your teeth are stained! So avoid things that can make your teeth look less-than-lovely, like coffee, tea, red wine, chocolate, and blueberries. Sure, these things are delicious, so you don’t have to skip them altogether — just use in moderation.

7. Never smoke or use chewing tobacco!
No matter how healthy your mouth is now, or how white your smile, smoking cigarettes or using chewing tobacco is a sure way to ruin it all. First of all, it’s just plain NASTY, and smells awful. No-one wants to kiss someone with bad smoker’s breath! Second, it can cause so many health issues, including oral and throat cancer… and it can destroy your teeth and gums! If you haven’t started, don’t… and if you have started, quit. If you can’t quit on your own, then get help… the sooner, the better!

Follow these rules for a healthy mouth from my dentist, and you’ll be sure to attract attention every time you smile! Do you have any other ways to keep your mouth healthy to share? Please let me know… I love hearing them!

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Ididn’t think they were lush or sparse, just average, and I liked how they looked with a couple coats of Dior black mascara. But when I saw a TV commercial for L’Oreal Lash Boosting Serum, it caught my attention, and I had to give it a go.

Price: $11.96 at drugstore.com

According to the instructions on the package and the video I watched at the L’Oreal website, I’d notice thicker, fuller, healthier lashes after four weeks. I applied the Serum in the morning and again at night right before bed, and within just one week, I noticed I wasn’t losing lashes when I was removing my eye make-up anymore. The next week, I noticed my lashes were so thick, I didn’t need to wear. My lashes were dark, thick, and long enough already, and when I wore mascara, they were so long, they got stuck in my eyebrows… who ever thought eyelashes could be too long? I prefer not to wear mascara, since it’s hard to wash off, so I’m loving having long lashes.

The Lash Boosting Serum is easy to apply. In the morning, after washing your face, apply your moisturizer like usual, then run the wand over your lashes as though you were applying mascara, then run the tip of the applicator across your upper lash line. Wait for it to dry, then apply your eye make-up as usual. At night, after washing off your eye make-up, wait for your lashes to dry, then apply the Serum again. According to the L’Oreal website, 81% of women saw an improvement in their lashes after four weeks… and I’m one of them.

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Often, when one partner cheats on the other, trust is lost and there is little chance of regaining it — this is likely not news to anyone.

But there is more than one category of cheating.

First, there is sexual cheating, where the man feels no emotional connection with the woman and is basically only interested in her for sexual purposes and the excitement that sleeping with her may offer.

The second type of cheating is emotional, where a man finds himself becoming emotionally connected to another woman. He may greatly enjoy her company, talking to her, and sharing his concerns and thoughts about life with her. He will begin to feel as though he would rather spend his spare time with her than with his girlfriend or wife.

In a survey I recently conducted, a little over 75% of women said that emotional cheating would leave them feeling more betrayed than sexual cheating. However, many of the women also reported that it is very hard to separate the two types of cheating because both would affect their feelings for their partner on both levels of the relationship.

Let’s look specifically at what women think about each kind of cheating.

EMOTIONAL CHEATING
Emotional cheating is the type of cheating that most women find more destructive for their relationship. Women know that there are many other attractive women out there and that men are very visually stimulated by nature. Not that this condones sexual cheating, but it is well known that some men have a hard time controlling their sexual desires.

The situation is more hurtful to a woman when her partner finds someone else whose personality he enjoys more. She often sees this as a sign that she no longer is interesting to him and that she is not fulfilling his emotional needs.

This is also the type of cheating that has less rigid boundaries. It’s easy to tell if someone is cheating sexually — they are either having sex or they aren’t — but what defines emotional cheating from a woman’s point of view?

What are some examples of emotional cheating?
One example would be if a man were to regularly take one particular coworker out to lunch or dinner meetings. In most cases, it would be safe to assume that she offers him more than just a discussion about work. She is probably also providing him with emotional companionship, giving him an opportunity to share his thoughts and feelings.

Men who are cheating emotionally often begin to question whether or not they should be seeing that one particular woman as much as they are. They know deep down inside that she means more to them than just a regular female friend would and thus feel a degree of guilt for seeing her.

Another example of emotional cheating that is becoming more common is that of online cheating. A man may find that he is logging on more and more to talk to a specific person, and that his wife or girlfriend is complaining that he is spending too much time on the Internet. He may feel more drawn to talking to this person than he is to the woman he is currently seeing — a classic sign of emotional investment.

This example illustrates pure emotional cheating; if the man has not even seen the woman before, he is much less likely to be influenced by the thought of sexual gratification.

Why do women feel betrayed by emotional cheating?
When looking for a mate, women tend to look more at a man’s emotional and intellectual qualities, including his ability to be a good father, to provide a stable home life and to interact with her on a daily basis. Men, on the other hand, usually tend to focus more on physical qualities in a mate in order to ensure that a woman is capable of producing offspring and satisfying his sexual desires.

That being said, since a woman invests heavily in the emotional aspects of the relationship, cheating in this form is generally very hard for her to handle, as she may feel completely betrayed by her partner.

SEXUAL CHEATING
The second type of cheating is sexual infidelity.

While this may not be as hard for most women to take as emotional cheating, it is still very destructive for a relationship. When a man has sex with another person, his wife or girlfriend will start to question her own skills in bed; she will wonder what the other woman is offering him that she is not. This will make her very self-conscious about her own performance and will often turn her off of sex completely, thus only serving to exacerbate the problem.

It is almost like a destructive circle: the man cheats, which results in his girlfriend not wanting to have sex with him at all, which can lead him to want to cheat more. In short, it is a very good way to end a relationship.

Is it easier for a couple to recover from sexual cheating?
This type of cheating is solely about physical satisfaction and often comes in the form of a one-night stand. The man feels no emotional connection with the woman and does not wish to spend time with her apart from performing the sexual act. He usually feels just as emotionally connected to his wife or girlfriend as he was before; he may simply feel bored with his sex life or find that he wants to explore other opportunities.

Often, his partner will not even give him a chance to explain and will just break things off as soon as the truth comes out, as she will question how she can possibly trust him again. A solid relationship should not involve such uncertainty and makes dealing with this type of cheating very difficult.

Can you predict how she’ll react?
How does a woman’s personality affect her reaction to cheating?

The previous was a good general guideline; however, it is not black and white. There are some women who place more emphasis on sex than on any type of emotional involvement. Usually, these women are either very involved in other aspects of their lives, such as their careers, or they tend to place their worth more on superficial aspects, such as their looks (as opposed to personality traits).

This type of woman will be more offended by a man cheating on her purely sexually, as this is why she believes he is attracted to her in the first place. She will think that since he no longer views her as sexually attractive, he will no longer want to be with her and will most likely end the relationship.

Women who find sexual cheating worse may also view men as sexual tools that only exist to satisfy their desires. Therefore, they take cheating as a sign that their partner has vested interests somewhere else, either purely sexually or both sexually and emotionally, and usually choose to move on to their next pursuer.

You can generally spot these types of women, as they will not invest as much in a man on an intellectual level. She may not connect with you and discuss her thoughts and feelings as much as previous girlfriends have, and you may find that the relationship itself tends to be more focused on the physical aspects.

If this is your case, then your girlfriend or wife may view sexual cheating as the most harmful kind.

What should you do if you’ve cheated?
If you have cheated on your girlfriend or wife, you have two options. You can choose not to tell her and hope it remains in your past, or you can come clean and admit to your crime.

If you choose not to tell her, you will have to deal with what you have done, and it may affect how you act around her since you will have the burden of your secret on your shoulders. Also, if it ever does come out, chances are the problem will be much worse, since she will not only be upset that you cheated, but also that you lied.

If you do choose to tell her, your conscience will be set free, but you will have to be prepared to deal with the consequences. If you cheated on her emotionally, it may be harder to work through, as the bond you have with the other woman will most likely be harder to break. However, if you cheated sexually, especially if it was a one-night stand, you might be able to get her to forgive you and work through it. Whatever her reaction, expect the worse.

At this point, however, you are going to have to fully commit to her. She may forgive you once, but twice is unlikely.

TO CHEAT OR NOT TO CHEAT
If you feel yourself drifting away from your partner, try to reconnect on an emotional level (if you are tempted to cheat emotionally), or else find new and interesting ways to spice up your sex life (if you are not feeling sexually satisfied). You will be surprised to find that most women are more than willing to put in the effort to improve these aspects of your relationship. But if you simply can’t help cheating, perhaps it’s time to break it off and move on.