10 Things Guys Notice First
- Curious about what grabs a guy's attention first? It's not just about looks. From your hair to your posture, every detail counts. Let's uncover the subtle cues that make a lasting impression.
So, what are the things guys notice first?
Believe it or not, the hottie in the corner of the coffee shop that you noticed right away isnāt totally buried in his book. He is checking you out! You may not be aware of it, but he is noticing everything about you. In an online poll, guys admitted that there are a few signs that a girl is worth getting to know a little better. While some of these things guys notice about a girl may be obvious, others are really subtle! Ready to sneak one by him? If you know what heās going to zone in on first, you can take a little extra time and TLC on those areas! Hereās your list of 10 things guys notice first!
1. Luscious Locks
Usually, when a guy sees a girl, his eyes automatically look at her face. And he thinks about whether or not she is pretty to him. But what if his first glimpse of you is the back of your head? Some guys have said that they can tell if a girl is pretty or not just by looking at the back of her head! Wanna know how? Her hair! A girlās hair is a dead-giveaway on how she takes care of herself and presents herself. Make sure your hair is shiny, luscious, and bouncy. Even if you donāt have time to curl it every day, at least make sure itās clean and combed out. Your hair should look like it smells heavenly and feels like silk!
2. Perfect Posture
A girl who carries her head high and stands straight and tall sends a message out into the crowd. It says, āHey, Iām confident, comfortable, and sexy. Iām the girl you want to get to know!ā Thatās one of the things guys notice first about a girl! Just think how someone with slumpy, slouchy shoulders looks. Would YOU want to get to know someone who walked around like they had the weight of the world on their shoulders?
3. Your Friends
Surprisingly, the company a girl keeps has a big impact on first impressions that she makes. You know the statement āBirds of a feather flock togetherā? Well, itās true! And in most cases, if a girl has loud, whiny, sassy, or rude friends, a guy may assume the same thing about her, even if she attracted him at the beginning. But if a girl seems to have a tight-knit group of friends who all seem to be having a great time together, it sends a signal that she is genuine and caring. Thatās one of the things guys notice first and love right away!
4. Your Pout
Kissing has been proven to be one of the worldās greatest stress relievers and research shows that most humans spend about 20,160 minutes per lifetime smooching! Wowza! So itās no wonder that one of the things guys notice first is your lips. Are they soft and smooth? Red or pink? Shiny and kissable? You can bet that heās going to be wondering that until he finds out, so why not make it a sweet suspense? Your lips should be kiss-ready every time you walk out your front door!
5. Perfect Dance Moves
A girl who can dance with the best of them proves a few things: She is confident in her skin, she knows how to have a good time, and sheās not afraid to bust a few moves! Plus, that makes a girl impossible not to notice! So next time you are kickinā it out on the dance floor, remember that you are being noticed and try to have a good time! Donāt be fake and over-the-top, but do have some genuine fun. Guys definitely notice a girl who is havinā herself a ball!
6. What You Carry Around
Believe it or not, your purse and other stuff you take with you reveal a lot about your personality! A girl who carries a huge purse full of makeup and other stuff like that is probably pretty high maintenance. A girl who has interesting books or puzzles on hand has a cool personality and loves to learn. A girl with a bright pink phone case is probably bubbly and sweet to be around! A girl with NO purse at all is laid-back, chill, and spur of the moment. The girl who carries toothpaste, travel-size deodorant, and lint rollers is always prepared for anything. And yes, guys do notice these things, ladies!
7. Your Smile
Oh, hereās an obvious one! But no matter how obvious or clichĆ© it may be, guys DO notice a girl who smiles. And most of them can tell if itās real or fake. Thereās a few who can be fooled-I always hate it when a super nice guy is stuck with a girl who he THINKS is a princess but we all know her game and itās not nice. But a guy who is attuned and ready can spot a real smile 5 miles out. So get you some teeth whitener and breath strips and get ready to shine, even on days you donāt feel like it. Itās one of the things guys notice!
8. High Heels
Not that you have to wear high heels every single day, but a girl in a pair of skyscrapers is one thing that guys notice first. High heels symbolize sexiness, strength, and boldness. So donāt be afraid to pop those babies on every now and then! Mix it up between heels and flats, but make sure you wear heels at least a couple of times a week. You never know when Mr. Right will bump into you! And I always say itās best to be prepared!
9. How You Strut
A sultry strut can reveal a lot to a guy. Remember in āThe Princess Diariesā when Princess Mia got walking lessons? Itās true that the way a person walks has a big influence on how they are perceived. Walk with purpose, style, and grace. Walk like a lady! You donāt need to swagger, or walk like youāre on the fashion runway, but do remember that you are a lady; a man-like stomp will not be cute or sexy to a guy!
10. Your Attitude
Probably the most important thing that guys notice first about a girl is her attitude. A girl can be as beautiful as a sun goddess and as sexy as all get-out, but if she has a bad or ugly attitude, a guy will drop her faster than you can say hello. No man wants to be tied down to a mean witch! So make sure that attitude is in ship-shape, and I guarantee you a guy will notice. I realize we all have bad days, just try not to let the bad days have YOU!
Thereās a thin line between being sexy and slutty, pretty and overdone, confident and proud, or sweet and fake. And it takes a special girl to be genuine enough to master that line! Now that you have this list of things guys notice first, you will have it down in no time! Please comment below if you loved my article or have anything to share with us! For instance, what do you notice first about guys?
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the first 8 things i notice bout guy is:1.his hair to see if it is long arond there ears because i rekon it looks cuter 2.smile,i like it to look happy and real and sweet 3.his eyes i want to see if they look distraught and stressedor happy and chilled 4.clothes to see if he takes pride in himsl or he is a scruff 5.shoes to see if he wears formal sneakers or what no 6.size, if he is broad, skinny etc.. 7.i see his face to see if itās one i would want to stare at 8.lips i like to see if there not dried or thin 9.wedding finger because i hate falling for married guys lol
:Hmmmā¦.why dont they ASK us what we think? I notice if SHE notices me. huge! Second i notice her butt. Sorry ladies but its true. Last her hair and lips.
wowwww this stuff was amazzing! I already knew some of them, but the rest? i had no idea! Again, u did a really great job!! keep telling girls wat they need to hear!! š simply superb! keep it up!
WOW, this was amazing, and i do very much agree with you!! some i already knew, but some were totally new to me!! keep telling girls wat they should hear!! great job!!!
really cool,I want to try these things,are there no exceptional guys who see your inner personalities.
I stumbled upon this article and as a guy I think this is all absolutely true.
Be careful with the point about being with friends. Yes it helps, but very few men will have the confidence to approach you if youāre in a tightly closed group. Open it up a little.
How you take care of yourself, especially your figure, comes across enormously. So does how you feel about yourself and how you move. Dance lessons make a big difference, as do (bizarrely) heels. Alas weāre shallow visual creatures.
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Hi this article was a lot of help, some of the things in it also count for women noticing men. the first thing I notice about men is if they have kind eyes and a nice smile
such great words of advice thank you and hope to hear what other things to can teach us !!
i think it was nice and really good advice. but i donāt think iāll have to stick to it strictly. iām not that stylish or anything, but i have a good posture and iām a bit quiet type. so if a guy notices me, heāll notice me the person i am. smiling on good days and glum on the bad ones.
LOVE IT , THANK YOU SO MUCH !!! <3 ;D
I really enjoyed reading this article, but I knew all of this, so it made me feel quite happyā¦ š but I think itāll help some girls, not everyone has a mother like mines. š only kidding š itās great. š
Wow this is amazing! i am so going to win him!
Wow!, this is some VERY good advice, man some of the most simple things can make the biggest difference if all females read this it wont be so many lonely ladies out there because its one thing to be alone and another to be lonely. brilliant, thanks.