T he trick to success is being unique, or more exactly using the ex back advice and injecting your own personality into the tips. You are you, the person your girlfriend originally fell in love with and cookie cutter advice may not reflect your personality.
Getting back together with your ex can be difficult when your girlfriend won’t speak to you or even acknowledge you. Do not forget though, she is probably hurting as much as you are. Your mission now is to get through those negative emotions she is feeling.
If you are looking for ways to get your ex back, try some of these tips.
1. Make sure your ex girlfriend knows that you are available.
Now is not the time to think about making your ex girlfriend jealous by dating as many women as possible! You want her to come back, so leaving the door open is essential.
Women think on an emotional level. Adding to her break up pain by trying to make her jealous will just indicate to her that you did not care for her in the first place.
But, how do you let her know you are available if she won’t speak to you?
Do not call her, text or leave private messages for her. Simply let mutual friends know that you are still single, particularly female friends. The message will get back!
2. Change how you act
Your ex girlfriend won’t want to speak with you if you are always bitter, depressed or angry when she see’s you. You need to be open and approachable.
The best way to do that is to accept the break up and start improving yourself. Forgive and move on. Your change in attitude will immediately make you more approachable and will make you feel better too.
3. Write her a letter
A handwritten letter is irresistible. Most women will open a handwritten letter that is posted them; it is quite romantic too!
It’s important that you do hand write the letter, not email, printed or even instant or private message on your favourite social site. Handwritten is special.
Make your letter reflect your personality, use nice stationary with a matching envelope. Make it look as if you do care and you have given it some thought. Keep the letter short but personal. There is no need to write a novel!
Getting your ex girlfriend back is possible, even when she won’t speak to you. Simply stop chasing her and change your approach.
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