You don’t want to confront him – sometimes just the word “commitment” can be enough to kill a budding relationship. However, you seem to have a great relationship and you’re ready to move on to the next level. Read on for a few tips on how to make him commit to you.
Don’t get intimate too soon
Most guys put women into two different categories when it comes to dating: women to have sex with and women with whom they’d like to have a serious relationship. Delaying sex with him is one way of letting him know that you are interested in a serious relationship with him, not just a temporary fling.
It’s impossible to know what your guy is thinking and feeling, just as it’s impossible to force him to commit to you if he’s not ready. However, holding off on having sex with him sends a strong message about your feelings and it will certainly make him give some thought to how he really feels about you.
Let him know how you feel
Most guys are really bad at playing guessing games. They appreciate it when the women in their lives are forthcoming about issues that are important to them. When the relationship has progressed to the point that you are ready to commit, it’s important to tell him how you feel.
Don’t make threats or suggest marriage – just tell him that you are ready to give up seeing other men and you’d like him to be faithful to you, too. If he’s not ready to give up other women, you will need to recognize that he is not as crazy about you as you are about him, and it’s time to move on.
Follow these tips and it won’t be long before you find out whether or not you are able to make him commit to you.