Most of the time, if you are still in love with him, you may hope and pray that one day things will work out again. The very most important thing to know is whether or not your ex is showing any signs of getting back with you, or if you maybe should move on.
How Much Does He Stay In Touch?
If he is still calling you are making an attempt to talk to you, than more than likely he is still interested in you. On the other hand, if he has made no attempt to stay in touch, than it could be possible that he has moved on with his life.
Has He Started Dating?
If you have noticed that he has not been seeing anyone new, or going out on dates, than he could be trying to work things out with you. If he has started dating or is interested in dating someone new, you might as well assume that he is ready for someone other than you.
What Does He Say About You?
Most of the time, if an ex is not willing to get back with you, he might start talking badly about you to others. If he is doing this, then he is showing that he no longer cares about you. He will say nice things about you if he really cares.
Did He Leave You For Someone New?
If the reason you two broke up was because he wanted someone new, then chances are you will not get another chance. It is plain to see that he really does not want a relationship with you, which is why he left for someone else in the first place.
Does He Only Refer to you as a Friend?
If he insist that you are only a friend, then he possibly only thinks of you as a friend. On a different note, he could be starting as friends to lead into a stronger relationship. See how long he refers to you as a friend, to decide if that is all he wants.
Has He Tried to Make You Jealous?
There are two reasons that he could be trying to make you jealous. The first reason is to try to convince you to come back to him. The second reason is to make you angry and to back away from him.
Does He Talk About Your Previous Relationship?
If he is willing to open up to you about your past relationship, then he could be making an attempt to work on what went wrong. By him wanting to make a change, he is showing you that he wants you back.