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9 Clear Signs a Guy Is Blowing You off1 comment


There are lots of signs a guy is blowing you off, but you might not realize them all.

| by Heather Jensen

If you’ve ever had your crush say that he was too busy to see you or if you’ve ever had had your guy friend tell you that he was going to call you back and didn’t, it could be a sign your guy is blowing you off! So girls, you ready to be able to tell when you are being blown off? Below, I’ve got the top 9 signs a guy is blowing you off!

1. Never Answers His Phone
One clear sign a guy is blowing you off that a lot of women actually overlook is when a man never, ever answers his phone. Do you constantly find yourself getting his voicemail? Have you gone to voicemail directly without the phone even ringing? That’s a sign ladies and one that you should take seriously! This is especially true if it’s your crush or even your boyfriend!

2. Too Busy to Go Out with You
If your crush is constantly stating that he is just too busy to make plans or that he is too busy to go to dinner or a movie with you, it could be a clear sign he is blowing you off. Ladies, if a guy really likes you, he’ll make time for you and make sure that he gets in touch with you. You should never be waiting on a guy and shouldn’t have to worry if he is going to be too busy to hang out with you.

3. Never Confirms Plans
Another tell-tale sign a guy is blowing you off is that he never, ever confirmed plans with you. He might not state that he is busy, but he is constantly telling you that he has to check his schedule or that he has to make sure that he is free. He never allows himself to confirm plans on the spot or even at a later date!

4. Never Ready to Be in a Relationship
Have you been hanging out with a guy that you thought liked you, but he keeps stating that he is just not ready to be in a relationship, that he is not ready to have a girlfriend? Well girls, that could be a clear sign your guy is blowing you off. He might just not be ready to be in a relationship with you or maybe, he just doesn’t like you that way. Remember that you’ve got to consider that option too!

5. Talks about Other Girls All The Time
Does your crush constantly talk about girls to his friends? Does he constantly discuss how hot that girl from last night was? This alone could be a clear sign your guy is blowing you off and maybe just doesn’t want to admit that he just isn’t into you. No guy, who is really interested in a girl is going to constantly be talking about other girls.

6. He ‘Checks in’ on Facebook with Other Groups of Friends
So let’s say that you’ve made plans with your guy and he’s finally confirmed. The night of the date, he cancels and then later, you see him checking in using Facebook or FourSquare with some of his other friends. That’s a sign he is blowing you off girls! After all, why wouldn’t he want to invite you?

7. If He Calls Back, It Takes over 24 Hours
Let’s say that you’ve called the guy you like multiple times to confirm plans or even just to talk, if it takes over 24 hours for the guy to even get in touch with you via text, Facebook or by calling, it can be a sign he is blowing you off! How long do you typically wait to call your crush back if he does manage to call you? Right away typically? If the guy likes you, he’ll find a way to get in touch with you, quickly!

8. He Only Calls You First When He’s Drunk
Are you constantly the one that is making the effort and always the one that calls first? Well girls, that could be a sign that he’s just blowing you off. Maybe, once in a while, he does call, but it always seems when he needs a ride or when he is completely wasted and he is drunk dialing. That’s not a good sign girls!

9. He Leaves You Wondering
Finally girls, the last sign he is blowing you off can all boil down to him leaving you wondering about his actions, leaving you wondering if he does like you, if he does care at all about you. If a guy wants you, you’ll know it and you shouldn’t ever be left wondering.

Now that you know all of the signs he is blowing you off, you’ll now be able to spot it! So girls, have you ever experienced any of these signs a guy is blowing you off? Share your experiences below!

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1 comment

  1. Ms G

    Oh my!  this is happening to me now, picked it up early in our relationship dumped him but he keeps coming back with loads of empty promises. I can’t get rid of him, I tried blocking all contact, he will lie low for a couple of days then just pitch up at my work place with no apology but a plan to fix his ways and I give in but he does it again. This has been happening for almost 6months. worst part is that his place has always been a mystery I have never gotten an invite have the adress but each I attempt to visit there’s an excuse. I wonder what that means 

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